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跟贾陆英老师学《论语》为政篇第五章 2013年12月24日 圣诞快乐!

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岚岛散人 发表于 2013-12-27 20:42:41 | 显示全部楼层

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公文写作百法例讲
现在用法律手段规定子女要常回家看看,但是由于时间、金钱等各方面的原因,又有多少人是想回而不能回的呢,这个道德层面的问题上升到法律层面到底有什么意义,始终不大明白
 
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老秘网虚拟稿费
贾老师讲得不错,大家发言很踊跃,尤其那个“小风飕飕地”发言很积极,很好!大家要向他学习!{:soso_e128:}
 
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专业写文章
学习、领会、顿悟、提高,贾老师讲的精彩,大家都很出彩。老秘网我们的共同的平台!
 
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贾老师在研究古人和古汉语方面有研究,佩服
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我这里显示也是一堆乱码,怎么回事
 
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好好学习,天天向上{:soso_e195:}
 
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贾老师讲的不错,学习了,谢谢
 
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贾老师讲的不错,学习了,谢谢
 
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我这里显示的是一堆乱码!!
 
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不错,学习了,佩服佩服
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